What I am up to now

Updated 2023-02-13

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family

  • Neem is at Stitch Fix and survived the recent lay-offs. Everyone has been sick a lot, so she has been spending time as the comfort parent more than we would like.
  • Rory is getting huge. It is wild to see her grown and develop a personality. She can sit up and play, and is resisting our encouragement to crawl.
  • Logan is almost 4 and is pumped for his Lego birthday party. He loves Forsyth School and constantly asks for play dates.
  • Neem is going to Cancun twice in a month, once on a girls’ trip and once with the family. We’re going on a trip together to DC in a few weeks too.

🧑‍💻 Work

  • I got hit by the lay-offs at Stitch Fix so I’m spending time taking care of kids while figuring out longer term plans.
  • Interviewing is exhausting, and doubly so because I am mostly just responding to people reaching out to me rather than looking for a company I really want so far.

🍿 Media Consumption

  • The Last Of Us has been amazing. I really think it is better than the game so far, which is surprising since that one is the best narrative game I have played.
  • Movie Night on Thursdays have been really rewarding. Marriage Story was one of the best films I have seen and it was so painful to watch that I never want to think of it again.
  • My GoodReads shows that I am 7 books ahead of my goal of 30 books for the year. Audiobooks have been amazing to let me read things I would not normally find the time for but value.

🎲 Games

  • Vintage Rotisserie Draft at St Lotus came back and went really well. We have a “Friends and Family” one in a week that will be lower stakes but more fun since I get to play in it.
  • I got to play Blood Bowl Team Manager at the Super Bowl and it was a fun quick deck builder. I want to dig more into that genre since it feels like it is less awkward than drafting while still having variance I enjoy.
  • The PS5 is still for Fortnite, but at least I am replaying The Last Of Us.

🖌 Creation

  • 7 Day RogueLike is coming up fast. We are ditching the social media game since it was too hard to make a Roguelike and we are just going to try a mobile multiplayer Rogue instead.
  • I have been doing a few little games that are mostly to try out things I don’t know well such as mobile interfaces, but Sigils has been fun to build so far.
  • Logan and I wrote a tiny book from stapled paper this weekend. It is fun to watch him create and be a part of that process with him, even if it is for little stuff that won’t last other than in memories.

🧠 Thinking About

  • What work success means to me still. Money is feeling like a constraint to my career right now, since most of the interesting companies pay worse than the amount that I set as my lower-bound. I am worried that I am boxing myself out of work happiness.
  • How to do more than survive with kids. When they are sick or in crisis, it is easy to constantly tell myself that “I just need to get through this” but I realize that I am sleepwalking through life with that defense.

This is a ”now page“, and you should make one too.


History

Updated 2022-11-21

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family

  • Neem is doing great, but none of us are sleeping well with all the life transitions. She is still doing iOS dev at Stitch Fix.
  • Rory was born on June 19. Everything went great and we are learning to deal with a little less sleep.
  • Logan is 3 (and a half according to him) and loving his time at Forsyth School.
  • We are stopping at 2 kids, but cannot wait to go on adventures together. Next big one is Cancun in March.

🧑‍💻 Work

  • I am doing front-end platform work at Stitch Fix.
  • My primary focus is on the design system, but I am playing with NextJS quite a bit too.
  • We are spending time on migrating to a monorepo using TurboRepo.

🍿 Media Consumption

  • We are mostly keeping up on all the Marvel and Star Wars shows. Andor has been lagging a little, but we will catch up.
  • The Sandman was fascinating and a great adaptation of the book.
  • I have been posting all of my movie reviews on Mastodon. The one I think is a must-watch is The Scarlet Pimpernel (1934).
  • Tiktok and Youtube take up too much time in my life and I am actively working on replacing them with things like podcasts.

🎲 Games

  • Vintage Rotisserie Draft at St Lotus has gotten bumped a few times due to my health, but is hopefully coming back in 2023.
  • Marvel Snap has been dominating my phone gaming time. It is addictive and quick, with a good progression system.
  • Board games haven’t been much of a focus recently, but I am probably going to spend some time on Marvel Champions LCG as winter comes.
  • I got a PS5 and mostly use it to play Fortnite, but I was pretty excited to get the Spider-Gwen outfit.

🖌 Creation

  • Planning is already happening for the next 7 Day RogueLike. Very likely it will be out of zeitgeist by then, but a game where you run a social media company sounds like fun.
  • My lack of SQL knowledge is really stalling some work I want to do on St Lotus card rankings.
  • Logan and I have been building Legos together. We have completed a Saturn V rocket and the Space Shuttle Discovery. Also many Logan-designed cars that he loves.

🧠 Thinking About

  • What work success means to me. Moving up a career ladder or down in hours is no longer my goal at work, so figuring out what it is has been taking time.
  • How to raise children. I know a lot of my personal values, but finding what to pass on to my children and how takes a lot of thought and planning.